I'm Amber and here are 3 things you need to know about me: 1) I am fiercely loyal to the people I love. 2) I'm one of the most emotional people I know, but I'll almost never tell you if I'm hurting. 3) I have a hard time making friends. Sometimes I feel like I'm "out of sight, out of mind" to most people in my life, at the bottom of all the friend totem poles. I recently had a birthday. Nothing big, no milestone, but still a birthday. A day that I hoped to share with my friends. Long story short, I basically got stood up. And it hurt. A whole hell of a lot. Because if your "friends" say they'll be there and then blow you off ON YOUR DAMN BIRTHDAY, it makes you feel some things. I took a few days to get my mind right before saying anything because I didn't want to respond angrily and make them mad. (SN: Um excuse me, how ridiculous is it that I was hurting but didn't want to make the ones who hurt me uncomfortable by saying that t...